What do you find attractive?

I asked this question before but I only received a couple of answers so I am asking again. :) I am just curious what you all find attractive. That doesn't just mean physical. Do you find intelligence attractive? Do you find sporty guys/girls attractive? Do you find freckles attractive? Anything at all that you find attractive! Yes, I realize everyone has a different idea of what is attractive and that is why I ask. :) Let me know! Thanks!

What do you find attractive?
Me and some of my buddies came up with this theory of why we find certain girls attractive, and other girls who are physically hot, we just can't get on board with. Its what we called a triangle theory. We even presented this to our friends. Sad, I know, but bear with me. So on the top, theres physical attractiveness. You have to be into the girl physically (freckles aren't good or bad for me, but I'm usually into darker girls and they tend not to have freckles as often, or maybe they're not as visible). Also with the physical, I used to be into athletic girls when I was active in high school basketball and I used to run, but now that I'm out of it, I'm less into girls who are into it (I guess its a 'what I can relate to' thing).





On another corner you have personality. And not the 'shes not that attractive but she has a great personality' kind of personality. More like, can I get along with her. Every guy has dated a super hot girl they couldn't hold a conversation with for more than five minutes without wanting to run away screaming. Those don't last long. We've also dated the girl whos kind of cute, and you ask her out on a whim, and it turns out ya'll click. Shes not more or less personable than that other hottie, but it just works for you. Thats personality.





Lastly is vibe. And this is the hardest to explain. I've been a serial dater for a lot of my college years (the last 4 of my life), and I've noticed that some girls just have this positive vibe about them (maybe they're just having a good day/month/year, I dunno) and there are some girls who have a negative vibe. Some of it is tangible. If a girl bitches and whines a lot and is generally not a pleasant person when you first meet her, that obviously gives out a negative vibe that you'll associate with her. But a lot of it is intangible, and I can't really explain it. But I'm sure you've met dudes who just rub you the wrong way even though they're good looking and not really rude or anything.





I've never typed this out, and I realize I'm writing a book so I'll wrap it up. A guy needs all three of these things in a girl for him to actually date her, be with her, and enjoy being with her. There are other things too that we didn't incorporate into our triangle theory like how the sex is, how well she gets along with your friends and family (even though thats kind of vibe), but our theory isn't perfect. Also, I suspect elements of theory work with girls and whether or not they're into guys.





Anyway, tell your friends and remember I have a copyright. ;)
Reply:Your avatar is an example of attractiveness.


I find attractive what pleases my senses without clouding my mind.
Reply:attractive qualities to me are...


kindness, dark brown hair, light eyes, with darker skin, cute straight white teeth, scruffy beards, unique artsy types, animal lovers, intelligent, looking to make a difference in the world.
Reply:i find attractive to the guy thru in his eyes.and like tall guy.
Reply:what i find attractive in one person if she/he has clean nails. but sense of humor and sense of responsiblity makes me thrill to one man.
Reply:Long dark hair and a beautiful smile.
Reply:intelligent, smart, kind, caring, reserved...





things that aren't attractive are self obsessed dead beats that leech or the sluts that sell their bodies off becuase they have nothing else going for them.
Reply:for me the first thing atract me in the girl her quite and her beauty and i like the simple girl very much and in same time i die in quite smile and light joking


i can say now she will be my dream girl
Reply:i loooooove smart guys. but not geeky ones. it's such a turn on when i guy is really smart, i swear! again not geeky though. i think skater guys are also really hot.....





seriously..skater guys who wear skinny jeans turn me on..
Reply:If she's someone who can converse with me, both intellectually and just being silly. If she can handle my boyish charms and childish humor....She doesn't have to be gorgeous I prefer simple beauty over over-beautiful. Simple features not all done up with tons of tattoos or piercings just simply lovely.
Reply:I like my girls to be shorter. Kind of opinionated and mean a bit. A little bit of a tude, but nice and sweet at the same time. I like them to look classy and well put together. Girl next door type with a twist is what I would call it. I want a girl with a sense of humor so she can laugh at my anecdotes.





Someone who is too serious can ifnd someone else. I love smart girls! I want to be able to talk to a woman and be intrigued.
Reply:i thnk mystery is one aspect... i'm more attrcted to a person that is quiet... you tend to know more about her by asking her and chatting with her... the more you talk the more you get hooked not knowing that ur already attrctd regardless of her physical aspects...
Reply:well.





i find green eyes attractive.





i find long hair attractive.





i find skinny attractive.





i find blond, brown, red, and black hair attractive.





black my favorite though.





i find musicains attractive.





i find caring people attractive





i find smart people attractive.





i find piercings and tattoos attractive.





i find well fitted clothes attractive.





haha imma stop now. i could keep going though.
Reply:freckles, very fair skin, very red hair, and very green eyes, oh wait im describing half of the irish population rofl. i like intelligence and a good sense of humor,
Reply:Straight hair, bright teeth, nice toes, a job sense of humor and a good self esteem....
Reply:Sincerity
Reply:definitely intelligence! Good sence of humor!





Nice smile, Nice Teeth, Dimples and nice Lips is what gets me most!
Reply:well everyone has their way of being beautiful. but what makes someone really attractive is their personality andd how well they can keep a conversation
Reply:Nick Jonas, j/k, confidence, loyalty, and personality.
Reply:I married my husband because he makes me think, and he makes me laugh. Life would be insanely dull and unbearable without some brains and laughter.
Reply:That's a hard question bc I find all those things attractive - it depends on the person %26amp; their personality. It's difficult to just pinpoint certain things.
Reply:What i really find attractive is a girl with fire, or strength. sure i like girls that are smart, funny, short, pretty, big eyes, long hair, or whatever. But I just get that feeling and a girl i wouldn't normally find attractive just is.
Reply:I think all those that you have mentioned can be attractive, your question is to vague.
Reply:physically:


not overweight


not creepy looking(as in a pedophile pornaddict who emerges from his room every 3 months0___0)


brown eyes


dark hair


any color skin


taller than me(i'm 4'11" so...xD)


nice teeth/smile


personality:


kind


romantic


mature


caring


funny


fun


independent


happy


goofy


intelligent


listening


respectful


hobbies and interest:


pretty much similar to mine(ex. anime, manga, videogames, guitar, musik, fashion, dancing, cooking, food, porn, pranks, parties, etc)...


overall, i REALLY like mature guys who are older than me by a few years!


=D