Why do I find it so difficult to find a girl to date?

I'm about 5'9", and 20 years old. I'm in school for technical theatre (I work backstage for plays and musicals and concerts and stuff) and it is a male centered field, unless you want to date a costumer and I do not. I don't like to blow my horn, but I will say that I consider myself intelligent. I also don't believe in the whole college dating mentality. I think a man should be a gentleman and do all the things a gentleman is supposed to do. I would never think of just "picking up a girl" for a night. The kicker: I've never had a date. Ever. Why? Why can't I find someone who isn't stupid and genuinely wants to listen to me and also isn't looking for a "dangerous man?" I've found plenty of nice girls who have one or two of those qualities, and I don't really think those are so off the wall, but not many with all three. And the few that I have found I have eventually found to be, quite honestly, crazy! Am I doomed to never find someone like that? Does anyone have any ideas?

Why do I find it so difficult to find a girl to date?
Well, umm I'm 17, and I can relate to you, even though I still go to high school. I know some girls have tried hooking up w/me, but none that I can sincerely say I like, I think you should start hanging out at places in which there are people that have those qualities, such as I don't know, church maybe, or tell your friends to take you out with people you don't know so you can meet new girls?? I really don't know, but you'll probably eventually find someone, you could also try the customers ,you never know, lol. srry if I wasn't much help.
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Reply:I know 100% what you're going through. My advice may not necessarily be helpful, but I thought you should know that you're not alone in this. I'm a 22 yr.old female going through the same thing, and I'm on the verge of pulling out my hair. I honestly don't think I'm the worst creation in this world so there's gotta be someone out there to share my time with. I'm not even looking for marriage, but a simple first date would be good right about now. I understand that you basically would not date the people around you, so my advice for you would be to go out more. You need to open a door of more possibilities. You are definitely not doomed to always find the crazy, bad-guy loving girls if you expand your surroundings. I complain and everything myself, but I don't actually get out much, with straight people anyway-- isn't that productive! I just occassionally expect the guy to fall from the sky and suddenly appear at my window or the minute I walk outside the house, but nope, won't happen. You need to be more sociable, but always be yourself. You don't have to go to parties or clubs, there's always the library, even church--okay I'm bad with locations. You seem like a pretty good guy and you know what you want, therefore you've already conquered what many daters strive to be. You should not have to compromise your daily routine if you don't want to. Then again, if you truly want to date you will put your best foot forward and make a change. I've gotten advice from people who will say you're still young, what's the rush, when it's right it will happen for you--they don't understand. I hope I did help you out and hopefully I can take my own advice as well. Part of me believes that when the time is right it will happen, but how long can one wait. You can make it happen, don't let it happen for you.