If you find the conversation with most guys less than mind stimulating...?

what's up? I find most guys make smart mouth comments that sound threatening to me. I don't like talking to very many of them. Why do they talk so ugly when I am hearing them? Do they do this all the time? I find their talk beneath me. I have a hard time finding guys to hold a half decent conversation with! Is it me or is it just them?





BTW, it's hard to find a man to date since I can't find a good conversation first!





Help me. Give me your advice!

If you find the conversation with most guys less than mind stimulating...?
I would venture to say you need to examine where you are looking. Maybe you need to find a few new venues that aren't conducive to those kind of guys. Its kinda like if you want to find a duck you look around water. But if you want to find a bear you would change venues and look in the woods. We are out there...lol...believe me and ya wanna know the funny thing...we don't want to be around the guys that trash the women either. Good Luck!
Reply:maybe its the tone of your voice or tey think since your age you want to be made fum of .Guys treat girls like they are ditsy just so they can have a good time with you I guess.
Reply:Guys in their teens and twenties often have a hard time acting normal around females - especially attractive ones - because their hormones are so out of control. You might have to look for guys a few years older than the ones you've been looking for. Eventually most men grow out of the "young, dumb and full of c*m" stage. It just takes some longer than others.





One other idea is to change venues. You're less likely to meet a cerebral male at the local dance club than you are at a business convention. Join a kayak club or take a yoga class. Mix it up a little. You might find Mr. Right in the least expected place!
Reply:It all depends what age you're talking about. If it's high school or just after it might be mostly inexperience and insecurity. They don't know how to relate to women so they put on a tough or smart facade to protect themselves. After 20 or so they should wise up and be able to handle a conversation. I hate to sound like a snob, but maybe you need to find more refined people to socialize with--people who are interested in ideas and can express themselves. These people will expect you to hold up your end of the conversation, unless they are windbags who just like to hear themselves talk.
Reply:I am the same way...the guy has to hold a great conversation...I am constantly getting mad at my bf because he makes smart as comments...but I son't think that all guys are that way...but I am not leaving my bf because of a smart a** comment...just try to find a guy that can hold a great conversation with...but don't let his comments get to you just let the guy know how you feel
Reply:If you want I will meet you and say nothing.





All I ask in return is I want to hear you moan.
Reply:If you can't have a decent conversation with a guy dont waste your time on him.
Reply:There are guys out there that will have intelligent conversations, you just need to find the right one. Be patient. Not all guys are like that, seriously.
Reply:actually after 2 years of dating and started dating girls , i've been attracted to them for years and after realizing guys are neandrathals and just plain pigs !!


i' m happier with females now.





always great conversations !!


try it ..