Why do I find it so difficult to find a girl to date?

I'm about 5'9", and 20 years old. I'm in school for technical theatre (I work backstage for plays and musicals and concerts and stuff) and it is a male centered field, unless you want to date a costumer and I do not. I don't like to blow my horn, but I will say that I consider myself intelligent. I also don't believe in the whole college dating mentality. I think a man should be a gentleman and do all the things a gentleman is supposed to do. I would never think of just "picking up a girl" for a night. The kicker: I've never had a date. Ever. Why? Why can't I find someone who isn't stupid and genuinely wants to listen to me and also isn't looking for a "dangerous man?" I've found plenty of nice girls who have one or two of those qualities, and I don't really think those are so off the wall, but not many with all three. And the few that I have found I have eventually found to be, quite honestly, crazy! Am I doomed to never find someone like that? Does anyone have any ideas?

Why do I find it so difficult to find a girl to date?
its just that you know what you want and you wont settle with anything less...a perfectionist some might call it...maybe you should lower your standards...no ones perfect
Reply:Women are attracted to many different thing but one thing that stands out is confidence. Love yourself and others will love you. Its a guarantee!
Reply:some girls aren't what you would expect when you first meet them...don't be so quick to judge.
Reply:Dont worry about finding a girl !! Trust God He has a plan for your life you just have to be willing to follow it !!! He will put the girl of your dreams in your life you just have to let Him work in your life !!!!
Reply:if u see a girl u like let her come to u and don't push her
Reply:It's hard to find a girl like that, but they really do exist. Often, in college, those are the girls you're not going to see though. They'll be in their rooms, not out partying. To find a girl like that, you sometimes just have to wait until you're older and then look for the sucessful business women. I know exactly 2 girls like that, and I'm one of them. And believe me, I know a lot of girls. It's just as hard to find a guy like that though. I guarentee somewhere out there there's a girl looking for a guy just like you. Try looking in different places though. Girls like that, often won't go into theatre, and pretty much never into bars. Also, if you're looking at the ones in the short shirts, mini skirts, and high heels, you've got the wrong idea. Us sensible ones don't dress like that!