Why can't i find her anywhere?

Why can't i find her anywhere?


i'm nice guy and handsome and everyone that i know likes me and half of the girls that i knew have crush on me but there not my type. my type is so hard to find that i can't find it anywhere i found 'it once and i been with her 7 years and now after she left me.


i'm totaly lost it been two years since we broke up and i'm alone without her! my question is why ist so hard to find my type or somone like my ex.girlfriend at least. i duno, ist me the problem cuz i'm born picky about girls? that why it so hard to find my type but what can i do to change and why ist so hard to find my


type when there alot of girls at my work and college have crush on me. why! why !

Why can't i find her anywhere?
Lower your standards to reality.
Reply:YOU NEED TO JUST LET LOVE IN AND NOT HAVE A TYPE AT ALL NO PREFRENCE JUST SOMONE WHO WILL FULLFILL THOSE NEEDS OF YOURS
Reply:sorry about ur ex but i thank ur tryin g to hard i mean yeal u know what u want and i understand u want tha best but being picky can make u past up that special someone


i mean just thank about it and take ur time
Reply:Because your either looking for the perfect girl and there is no such thing as one... Or you aren't fully over your ex...
Reply:its sounds like youre not over your ex, and are looking for someone EXACTLY like her, but that just won't ever happen. you dont need to "lower your standards" but try to be open to different types of personalities and quirks.
Reply:It just seems to me like you're trying too hard to replace your ex of 7 yrs. rather than just actually looking for another potential mate. If there are that many girls going for you, then you are just too picky. Try to loosen up and be more open to different people. Don't restrict yourself to just ONE thing. You never know until you try. Don't push every single girl away once she hits that button of being different from your ex...or from your tastes. Trust me, I know how it feels to be "lost" without someone...but it shouldn't stop you from living your life.
Reply:"Ist?" Sind sie deutsch? Either way, i bet it's just the high standards that are making it difficult to find the right girl. Lowering your standards would mean settling, and i wouldnt suggest it because you'll only regret your results. The best thing is to have patience i guess. Perhaps you and your ex girlfriend will resolve your differences and become great friends again.
Reply:Everyone is an individual. you are never going to find someone like your ex. Dont lower your standards, but dont close off options to others just because they havent got blonde hair blue eyes etc. I met a guy once who I could have easily spent the rest of my life with. When I said to a friend "But he's not my type" she said " Good, that means hes not an a$$hole".


Alot is to be said for that.