Why can't i find her anywhere?

Why can't i find her anywhere?


i'm nice guy and handsome and everyone that i know likes me and half of the girls that i knew have crush on me but there not my type. my type is so hard to find that i can't find it anywhere i found 'it once and i been with her 7 years and now after she left me.


i'm totaly lost it been two years since we broke up and i'm alone without her! my question is why ist so hard to find my type or somone like my ex.girlfriend at least. i duno, ist me the problem cuz i'm born picky about girls? that why it so hard to find my type but what can i do to change and why ist so hard to find my


type when there alot of girls at my work and college have crush on me. why! why !

Why can't i find her anywhere?
You are looking way too hard.
Reply:To tell you the truth it sounds like you have been hurt and i totally understand as i have been dumpt also. I think you may still be in love and hurt about you break up, i mean you were together 7 years thats a long time and your heart will definatly find it hard to move on. Being picky is a great state of mind which means you know what your looking for and wont settle for less. This has nothing to do with looks, it sounds like other girls do think your gorgeous but your not interested in settling for something thats not what you want. My advice would be to enjoy yourself not worry about why you dont have someone and enjoy life cos she will come when you least expect it and when you find her make a move "girls are shy". Sweep her off her feet and move on with life. treat the past as a time for growing into the person you are now. Life is a learning experience so get out and enjoy yourself. good luck with life i hope you find what you are looking for. Ciao xoxox
Reply:Get over yourself! You bother....
Reply:Don't be so picky. If you have girls that want you. I say accept them. I wish I had girls that had crushes on me. I am nice and handsome., but the girls seem to run the other way.
Reply:Patients. I've been married twice, eleven years apart. About 37 years ago, now I'm very happy with a wonderful women, that I met 4 years ago, we've bought a house last year. She takes care of her 90 yr. old mom. She has wonderful children, that love me. Life is finally wonderful. I'm 57 now. PATIENTS, child.


Dios te bendiga.
Reply:Interesting question. First of all, stop feeling sorry for yourself because it bring out negative vibes and the girl you want will be repelled by them. 2nd item, do you really know what you are looking for? Many times people say they know what they want, but according to what I read, you have not described anything and I think you are looking for a replacement that is EXACTLY like your ex. Make a list of MUST HAVES, positive characteristics, negative characteristics and then NEVER INTERESTED list. Make sure you are honest with yourself, or it won't work.With the people who are interested in that, compare the list and then see if you are truly blinded.





another idea that you can explore is that you might be looking at one major characteristic and assuming other characteristics that may or may not be true with a person, thereby throwing them out.





Lastly, I would take a look at the girls that you attracted to and put yourself in their shoes and see if "they would be interested in you". YOU MUST BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF!!!!! What you might find is that they are not interested in you because they are looking for something else (ie. a college educated woman is looking for a upwardly mobile person who has the potential of a VP someday and you are a non-manager type). That type of person will probably RULE you out. Look for someone who complements your personality and shares the same values. Styles can be overcome, but values can't be changed.





Good luck with your search.